Posted 14 October 2012 - 08:45 AM
as a man I personally just see that you are not putting forth effort to make yourself interesting ... at least with the mindset you have. If you know what the common criterias are, you better work yourself over. you are either a mormon or you are not.
The pladies previously pointed a lot of things out. however, if you were her, don´t you think she might be looking for someone who is her personal mainstream with the "mainstream" values ?
you know pretty good that the temple along with eternal marriage is mostly deeply ingrained.
I converted three years ago and I live in germany, bad enough I am not born in the church here because they seem to put a lot of stock into it, what really disqualifies me, was that I couldnt go on a mission. rm´s are highly sought for and I already been told I belong on the ysa scrap yard. in any case, looking it that way... why do you think, it might be remotely possible for you in your current mindset and lifestyle , that you could be considered at all if not out of curiosity or friendship ?
anyway, what did you do, to make yourself even remotely interesting enough in case it goes into a mid term or longterm relationship ?
if you are a looking for a fling or anything similarly flimsey than you would be quite the masochist to even have yourself bashed against the wall.
instead of wondering if someone would date you, you should rather wonder what you can do to gain a testimony for your own sake and not for the purpose of dating. that is, if you still believe