I mentioned that I would be writing something about my conclusions, and would post if for you...if you are interested. It was accepted as a "guest post" on an LDS blog. Here's the link:
Forgiveness: A How-To Guide - Rational Faiths
You might like this part in particular:
Recently I asked on a LDS message board “what does forgiveness mean to you?” I specifically addressed my concern with the “it’s ok” issue. One of the answers gave me an epiphany.
The missing link that helped me see clearly what I could not see before was. . .