Well I have never been diagnosed ( I can't afford to) and back in the day, (I am 52 years old)
unless you were non verbal and stimmed a lot, you were not autistic. In my world, if you were
shy and had social troubles, you were out of luck. Targets for bullies and all sorts of abuses, just
like today, but not much help out there. Who am I kidding, not too much has changed, but at least some are getting the help and support they need, especially from parents.
I have suspected that have it for several years now. I have some of the "symptoms". Super acute hearing,difficulty in having relationships, obsessions of specific studies or subjects, taking things too literally, having meltdowns when under too much pressure, and not showing emotion at proper times.
I know there is a tie in with OCD, ADD, ADHD, as well as Tourettes, specifically, many times one can have more than one "disorder" and I use that term loosely. Honestly, I have taken many online tests that state that I most likely have Aspergers. All I know is that I have never actually been on a real date
that I can think of, and that I am much better off when I am by myself. Large crowds of people seriously stress me out. So, formally diagnosed, no, but the tests say yes, most definitely.