JustBeachy09

I'm "ENFP" -The actress 33% Extroverted 25% Intuitive 38% Feeling 11% Perceiving Yes, this was me to a T, no need to ask about me, I'll just give people this.

Something that takes a long time for us to understands that when a spouse cheats either emotionally, physically, or both that yes it was a cause of something deeper. You have a great understanding on that, but also that when he ventured off it was because of his own inadequacy issues. For whatever reason, since somewhere deep inside he felt that you were either too good for him, too devout, or whatever, he did go off and seek solace with someone with no class and morals. Often times we ask ourselves why they settled, just know that it isn't because of you. If you are doing the best that you can, praying, going to temple and all that, and he won't meet you anywhere near halfway then don't be the punching bag to his emotional abuse (and not meeting you halfway when you are trying so hard is emotional abuse), because now he has the capacity to make you doubt yourself. Pray, meditate, and sink guidance. If you can jump ship, I hope you do.