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truetothefaith, thank you for you posts. You have no idea what they have meant to me today..... My husband was also addicted to pornography, it has always been an issue in our marriage. I also never felt that I was wasn't good enough. to top it all off, I found out 4 weeks ago today that he was having an online affair. Although there was never any physical contact, just a lot of explicit emails, I still feel that it was an affair. We are working it out, He has gone to the Bishop(on his own). The Bishop told us to put this behind us and to move forward. But the hurt is still so real. In the back of my mind I'm always wondering if he is thinking of her. I think what you said is key "We are definitely past the worst of it. Now it's just picking up the pieces. We say prayers, we read scriptures, pay tithing, fast, pay fast offerings...etc. We are working really hard! And I just want this all to be done so we can move past all of it..." Thank you for the books that you suggested. I am defiantly going to get those. I am currently reading Rock Solid Relationships by Wendy Watson Nelson. It shows you how to strength relationships through the scriptures. your qoute "To forgive is to set free a prisoner...and realize that prisoner was you." I have written it down and am going to look at to it often this week.. You have no idea how much you have helped me today.... and although my path is long..... I am taking it one day at a time. Thank you again and may the Lord bless you.

I would like to thank you for all of your post..... It has been 4 weeks today that I found out that my husband was having an affair online, and although there was no physical contact, there were many explicit emails. He was very sneaky and tried to avoid detection, I am very good at "spying" and was able to find out. We had a huge smack down. I love him. I wanted this to work out, not only for us but for our kids. I was willing to change and return passion to our relationship, but he had let me read everything that was written and to never come to the site again, or contact her. I believe that there are many force that aided us to where were are now. We are TALKING, which was a huge issue. We are affectionate, to the point that the kids are giving us a hard time. He has gone to the Bishop(on his own) and is on the road to repentance. But I always have in the back of my mind " Is he thinking of her". The Bishop told us to put this behind us and go forward from this day forth..... But I am having a hard time. The hurt is still so really. When does it stop.