RadDad

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  1. i read with interest your problem. the first thing i did was check to see what country you live in. your profile says usa. yet, you said you read an article in the liahona, which leads me to believe that you are from a foreign, possible non-english speaking country. it would lead me to wonder if some of the communication problems are cross culture or cross language based. still, if he really let you go sleep in the car and he got so mad when you mentioned an affair, it seems that i have to agree that he is abusive. he is a problem wracked man and needs help.i agree that you both, or just you need counciling. even if he will not go, it will help you. he may not be worth keeping, but you need to do what you can to make yourself feel good about you, so you can do and feel what the Lord wants you to do.
  2. you sound like you have a pure desire to do what is right. good for you!!! that is the first step all done. the one thing that i caught is that you have not accepted callings that put you in the forefront. it is just my opinion, but i believe that the Lord has seen your desires and given you the answer to your desires through a calling that would lift you. stop turning them down. let the Lord run the church. He will call you where He wants you and give you the inspiration to be strong and fulfilled. I too am a convert and have had more leadership positions that i ever thought possible. the Lord has guided me through each of them.He will you too.
  3. you mentioned health care. i am on staff at a hospital that pays for continuing education. become a CNA, start working and work up to RN as you go. if the time comes that you are blessed with children, you can work evenings or nights part time to keep the skills up and still be a great mom.
  4. okay all you self righteous, holier than thou, bang the drum on the street corner and make sure the world hears me tell someone they are terrible-ers. this was stupid. i did not make you listen to the entire interview. a young woman was a married woman who was younger than i. that is more and more people now days. i was not inappropriate....she asked if my wife and i used them. she asked if it was wrong for her and hubby. i hope you feel better. i am insulted that you all feel i was inappropriate in my use of the temple recommend interview. my point is ignored so you can make a puppy war with words.
  5. was asked that by a young woman in a temple recommend one day...i simply responded if frilly lingerie was against he rules, that i would need to be released.
  6. do not remember the talk or the implication, but i believe there are laws irrevocably decreed in heaven......
  7. if anyone at all checks your recommend it will be a member of the other ward bishopric. no questions will be asked. just go, participate and enjoy.
  8. i really am sorry i ever asked the question
  9. Moses lived before Christ and as such had to be translated so that he could appear and perform a physical ordinance on the mount of transfiguration. Once Christ had been resurrected, the bands of death were broken and Moses could be resurrected with the faithful saints that slept from the time of Adam to the resurrection. He then appeared to Joesph Smith as a resurrected being.
  10. guess the mods can delete this whole thing...i thought it sounded interesting. guess i was wrong.
  11. Hi all! I love studying the signs of the times and the Second coming of the Savior. I like speculating. I realize, recognize and acknowledge that "no man knows the day or hour" I do not claim to know. I just wonder where some of you think we are standing. I challenge you to fill in the following blanks. 1- I think the economy is going to fall apart and we will need to live off of our year supply by the year _______________. 2- I think the gathering at Adam Ondi Ahman will happen by the year __________. 3- I would be surprised if I woke up Jan 1 ___________ and the second coming had not happened. myself...I would answer: 1- 2014 2-2020 3-2021 no prophecy claimed. no special insights professed. just a gut reaction and I would be interested to hear yours.
  12. lollypop, your quandry gave me a few minutes to think on the principles of the the Holy Ghost and to think of times i have been helped. I have found that Heavenly Father, as a wise and loving parent, will never lead me down a road that will hurt me or lessen me. every time i have received revelation, i have grown or expanded. from reading your post, it would seem that you cannot grow by the feelings you had. 1- a return to this young man will return you to a pre church activity relationship, which could be disasterous to you. 2- this young man has expressed that he will never love you, thus making it a painful experience for you. 3- you feel confused and wonder if it was really a spiritual experiendce. number 3 is a big teller. if confusion, fear, pain, doubt etc are in your heart, you can be assured that the feeling is not from God. kneel down and tell Heavenly Father that you felt that He told you to contact the young man and that you will do it id He confirms it to you. you have the right for a confirmation of all that you receive. (ex: nephi and laban) the psychological problems that this young man has should scream "RUN, RUN, RUN!!!" to you any way. if you were my daughter, that is what i would scream. part of the story, that his care givers will not allow him to get involved romantically, just sounds like a lie. i am in the medical field and i do not see many people out on the street that have a problem that would require such instruction or structure. if they need that close of "allowing" they would be in a lock down facility. i am fearing for you and advise that you "do a joseph" (see joseph and potipher's wife) and get yourself out of there. you may be a lollypop, but do not be a sucker