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You mean for the post talking about their wife's (deseased). My husband is alive, it was my mother who passed away

Clickyclack I admire your attitude, that is sad you mother felt that way, but you have not let what she said get to you, so keep on smiling:)

Hi, I am now facing this same choice. My husband said I didn't need too. But its definitely an increase, and in an eternal perspective, we can't take temporal things to the other side. The Lord gives us everything, including our talents, the way to make a living, the parents who raised us who died, who provided the inheritance. So thank you to those in this forum for helping me.