Thank you Skippy740 I do know that things are going to be different in fact a lot has changed in the last year. We are now empty nester also. I come from a HUGE LDS family and I have always been somewhat religious. I attended the Lutheran Church and raised my kids Lutheran (partly because that is what my husband was raised and partly because of my issues at that time with the church. Mostly because my mother in law went and I didn't want to go to church alone) I had attended the Lutheran church for the better part of our marriage and my husband never went to church unless it was Christmas, kids communion, graduation ect. I have not always lived by the W of W but I don't believe that I have changed who I am that much. I had attended church meetings when a niece or nephew was baptised and if one of my relatives talked in church in my town. Our family reunions were held at the LDS church a lot. so its not something super new just 4 hours on sunday compaired to 1 1/2....I live 15 miles from town so add driving time in...lol