I wonder how this applies; 42 But Jesus called them to him, and saith unto them, Ye know that they which are accounted to rule over the Gentiles exercise lordship over them; and their great ones exercise authority upon them. 43 But so shall it not be among you: but whosoever will be great among you, shall be your minister: 44 And whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all. (New Testament, Mark, Chapter 10) I'm not sure but i believe that no keys or authorities are given so that we can act as "the deciders" - In the home or church to "preside" should mean to "serve" - maybe??