sarah123

Seth, don't give up being a gentleman just because your friends make fun of you. Shame on your friends for doing that!! What I think is that is why young people aren't being chivalrous, because they think someone will make fun of them. Stand out from your friends. Stand out from the crowd. Continue to be a gentleman and like you said, some girl will find it charming. Don't stop asking girls out. I wish someone would have been bold enough to ask me out when I was younger. I would have said yes. Even if it didn't work out. I think most girls are like that. Maybe focus on the girls that you wouldn't normally consider "hot". You'd be surprised how many "yes" answers you get! Good luck!

I thought I was the only one out there with this problem! Everyone around me seems to be happy, holding hands with their significant. I am 30 and have had exactly two first dates and they were disastrous! I liked what Ben Raines said It seems like men these days think women are the ones to do the asking. I am an old fashioned girl and will wait to be asked out and because of that I will probably NEVER get asked out. Either guys are getting lazy or chivalry is dead. Probably both. I also liked what Will said. Very excellent points. Follow what Will said and you can not go wrong. I wish more guys would follow Will's formula! Alas, I am happy and still waiting.....