I would totally be open to marrying a widower, except that there are VERY few out there. On average from ages 20-40 there are more men that die than women because men tend to do more dangerous things (e.g. ride motorcycles, work with machinery, military). That being said, I went to a popular lds dating site to look at my prospects. There was 10 pages of widows my age looking to be married. There were 8 TOTAL widowers in the same age range. 8! That being said, why would a widower even marry a widow? He can get clearance to be sealed to the second wife as well. I have been told that when my second husband and I are both dead, we can be sealed together by our children. However, it still leaves uncertainty and therefore heartache in the marriage. I'm not saying that Heavenly Father won't work it all out, because I'm sure he will, but it's still a hard thing to bare, no matter what rational assumptions we come up with it still boils down to this: He's not sealed to me and he's not sealed to our future children. I may be with another guy throughout eternity. Have I thought about breaking the sealing? Yes. Goodness Yes! I may change my mind later on, but it still hurts a lot to think that. I have a baby with my first husband, I think it would be different if we didn't have any posterity. I honestly feel like I would be pulling the rug out from underneath him. I made covenants with him on the alters of the Temple that are supposed to go beyond death. I made PROMISES. And I'm going back on my word because something happened that wasn't his fault? Does anyone else see that it kind of makes me a liar? Anyway, I appreciated every post on here. I enjoyed reading them. Keep them coming. I also appreciated some of the honest opinions on here. I assumed the answer was, "no" pretty much. I just wish I could be sealed to both like it was back in the 80's. It would save me a lot of heartache.