So I have been married for a year. Just after I got married my husband told me that he had a masturbation issue. No he does not look at Pornography he doesn't have too. When I mentioned talking to the bishop he said that before we got married he talked to his "home ward" bishop who said that he would just get over it it wasn't a big deal.
well you can imagine my shock when he told me that, as well as when he was still doing it 6-7 months into our marriage. Then he said he "stopped" but guess what that was a lie too..... Just about every 3-4 months he breaks down and tells me that he has been lying to me and that he hasn't stopped... WELL DUH it's not like I couldn't guess when you stopped being intimate with me.
My husband is cheating on me with himself. I don't know what to do or how to handle it! I can't sleep I just feel lied to and alone with all of this! When I talked to my bishop about it he told me that there was nothing he could do because I was not my husband coming in to talk to him. That makes it that much better!
This is really effecting my life. I can't sleep, I don't want to eat, I just want to cry and run away. Please if you have gone threw anything like this help me, give me advice, how did you handle it?