I do not believe that asking any question is wrong if it comes from an earnest desire to know. If something is important for you to understand and serves a purpose in your own spiritual development then it is important to god .although he may not give you the answer he will lead you along the path that will eventually help you find it. My initial thoughts that let to me considering the question about the atonement stems through a desire to understand my own Identity and place within gods family i interpret the creation drama In which Moses in clothed in god's glory so that he can see all of god's creations in reference to this world as teaching a principle. That all things have a place and order, their relationship to God their duties and what they can become through following Jesus Christ. When a person understands who he is and what he is to do he can move forward a lot quicker and with greater determination. Alma teaches us to experiment with the word experiments require a hypothesis - a way of proving or disproving - the collection of data - results and a conclusion from this perspective we can better understand the nature of the question that lead to us considering the initial hypothesis and how it can impact of individual nature.