My X did the same thing. We almost divorced when my 2nd child was a baby. I thought he had changed and learned his lesson. Umm nope..his attitude was the same as your husbands. I found out years later and 3 kids later that he was doing the same thing. I also found a hotel receipt. He excused it as she didn't show, I was extreamly guilty..blah..blah..blah. After that I filed for divorce he was not going to change and I couldn't help him by loving him.
It was a hard thing to do. My 4 yr old was not 2 even and she to this day askes me to tell her the story of why her dad and I got divorced. Course I won't tell her. It has been tuff on my kids.
I have since remarried to a wonderful man, I never dreamed being married could be like this.
Would I do it again. No..If I had to do it again I would of never married him
I love my DH so much. I never thought it was possible to be so happy.
Your DH needs help. Have you talked with your Bishop?